Remember what should be remembered, and forget what should be forgotten.Alter what is changeable, and accept what is mutable.
2．能冲刷所有的除去眼泪，就是时间，以时间来推移感情，时间越长，冲突越淡，仿佛不断稀释的茶
Apart from tears, only time could wear everything away. While feeling is being processed by time, conflicts would be reconciled as time goes by, just like a cup of tea that is being continuously diluted1.
3．怨言是上天得至人类最大的供物，也是人类祷告中最真诚的部分
Complaints are the greatest offerings that God obtains from human beings, as well as the most faithful prayers human beings might utter to God.
4．智慧的代价是矛盾。这是生活对生活观开的玩笑。
Wisdom appears in contradiction to itself, which is a trick life plays on philosophy of life.
5．世上的女孩总以为自己是骄傲的公主（除去少数极丑和少数极聪明的女孩例外）
Girls always look on themselves as proud princesses, with the exception of a small number of either extremely ugly or exceedingly smart ones.
6．假如敌人叫你生气，那说明你还没胜他的把握
It can be inferred that you lack confidence in a victory over your rivals from the fact that youre irritable2 against them.
7．假如朋友叫你生气，那说明你仍然在乎他的友情
From that you would get angry with your friends, we can conclude you sitll care about the friendship between you.
8．令狐冲说有的事情本身大家没办法控制，只好控制自己。 可是，他算什么！！
Something is out of our control, so we have to command ourselves. said Linghu Chong, a known character in a Chinese novel about persons adept3 in martial4 arts which is easily concealed8 by habbits, blurred9 by time, and eroded10 by laziness.
18．生活短短几十年，不要给自己留下了什么遗憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，该爱的时候就去爱，无谓压抑自己
Be sure that you have never had any regrets in your life which only lasts for a few decades. Laugh or cry as you like, and its meaningless to oppress yourself.
19．《和平年代》里的话：当幻想和现实面对时，一直非常痛苦的。要么你被痛苦击倒，要么你把痛苦踩在脚下
While our dream is confronted with the reality, you always feel painful. Just trample12 on the pain, or youll be beat down by it.
20．真的的爱情是不讲究热闹不讲究排场不讲究繁华更不讲究嚎头的
A true love is what doesnt strive for busyness, for extravagance, for luxury, and moreover for hokum.
21．生命中，不断地有人离开或进入。于是，看见的，看不见了；记住的，遗忘了。生命中，不断地有得到和失落。于是，看不见的，看见了；遗忘的，记住了。 然而，看不见的，是否就等于没有？记住的，是否从来不会消失？
There is someone that is coming or passing away in your life around the clock, so you may lose sight of those seen, and forget those remembered. There is gain and loss in your life, so you may catch sight of those unseen, and remember those forgotten. Nevertheless, doesnt the unseen exist for sure? Will the remembered remain for ever?
22．大家确实活得艰难，一要承受种种外部的重压，更要面对自己内心的困惑。在苦苦挣扎中，假如有人向你投以理解的目光，你会感到一种生命的暖意，可能仅有短暂的一瞥，就足以使我感奋不已。
Its true that we have been leading a difficult life, for we need not only to be under various external pressures, but also to be in the face of internal perplexities.You would be affected13 by the warmth of life if someone gives you a understanding look during your bitter struggle.Even a mere14 glance would make you moved and inpired.
23．我不去想是不是可以成功,既然选择了远方,便只顾风雨兼程；我不去想,身后是否会袭来寒风冷雨,既然目的是地平线,留给世界的只能是背影.
I wouldnt care success or failure, for I will only struggle ahead as long as I have been destined15 to the distance. I wouldnt care the difficulties around, for what I can leave on the earth is only their view of my back since I have been marching toward the horizontal.
24．后悔是一种耗费精神的情绪.后悔是比损失更大的损失,比错误更大的错误.所以不要后悔
Pentinece is something that enervates16 our spirit, causing a greater loss than loss itself and making a bigger mistake than mistake itself, so never regret.
