Make sure your love is unconditional1. Make sure you love people in all kinds of weather. Or else what is the use if we love a person only when he is good or she is nice When I need the people most thats when they leave me. All the time. So please, I hope you wont be like that. We always have to consider the other party, your companions situation and mood. Maybe hes in difficulty2 right now. Thats why his mood is not so sweet. Maybe she has so much work to do and so many headaches, so she cannot be so darling like usual. That time is the time when we need to show our most noble3 quality, the way we want ourselves to be.Its not that if you are sweet to that person then he will love you more. Maybe he will, maybe he wont. But that is not the point to be good and to be noble. To be good, to be noble is for ourselves because we choose to be that way, we want to keep being that way, and we feel good about it. Its not because, Okay, now he needs me more. If I show more sympathy4（同情，慰问） , then our love will be stronger. Its not even to be considered.But most of the time we fail the test. When people are in most difficulty, we just leave them, or we are cold and indifferent5. Oh, youre not nice to me. All right, all right. Youll come and need me soon. Of course they will. When theyre in a better mood, when everything goes better, of course theyll come around. But then its too late. Then it is not love anymore. Its just a need for each other. Thats different, because you are used to each other and you need each other sometimes out of habit, out of convenience, out of financial security6 reasons -- anything. But its not true love.
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